{"id":16467,"date":"2024-06-11T00:00:16","date_gmt":"2024-06-10T15:00:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sasugacommunications.com\/ja\/?p=16467"},"modified":"2024-09-30T10:59:17","modified_gmt":"2024-09-30T01:59:17","slug":"less-effort-and-more-impact-networking-for-introverts-and-low-energy-extroverts-1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sasugacommunications.com\/ja\/the-worst-and-best-advice-of-my-career","title":{"rendered":"The Worst And Best Advice Of My Career"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.6.3&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;4.6.3&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.6.3&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.6.3&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; header_text_color=&#8221;#8300e9&#8243; custom_margin=&#8221;||0px||false|false&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;||0px||false|false&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Perhaps the worst and best advice I\u2019ve received so far in my 3-decade career in Japan.<\/span><\/p>\n<h4><b>WORST ADVICE: Underpromise and overdeliver<\/b><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I received this advice from a senior colleague in my early days at McKinsey Japan.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cBrilliant!\u201d I thought.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What a great way to delight my colleagues.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It also turned out to be a great way to overwork, burn out, and be taken from my office to hospital in an ambulance.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">(No blame at all on my employer &#8211; I take full responsibility for saying \u201cyes\u201d to too much.)<\/span><\/p>\n<h4><b>BEST ADVICE: Aim for average<\/b><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This was what my productivity coach recommended when I worked with her after leaving McKInsey and establishing my own business.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I thought she was nuts.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How could I possibly achieve everything I wanted to and keep everybody happy if I only aimed for average???<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But I discovered that aiming for average relieved me of so much physical, mental, and emotional pressure (less effort). That freed up my energy and creativity to get better results (more impact).<\/span><\/p>\n<h4><b>Practical ways to lower your expectations of yourself<\/b><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here are a few examples:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Reduce the number of tasks you expect to complete today<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Set a time limit and call it done instead of continuing to perfect your work<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Stop working when you\u2019re tired<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ask for help<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Clean the toilet less frequently (this may or may not apply to you!)<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What works for you?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What other ideas do you have?<\/span><\/p>\n<p>(Thanks to Christiane Brew for the photo from my workshop at The FEWture Conference 2024, where I shared the stories about the advice I received. HUGE thanks to everyone for the enthusiastic participation!)<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=&#8221;1_2,1_2&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.6.3&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; disabled_on=&#8221;on|on|on&#8221; disabled=&#8221;on&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_2&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.6.3&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221;][et_pb_image src=&#8221;https:\/\/sasugacommunications.com\/ja\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/LEMI-15Jun24-image.png&#8221; title_text=&#8221;LEMI 15Jun24 image&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.6.3&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221;][\/et_pb_image][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_2&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.6.3&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.6.3&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;||||false|false&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><strong>FOR WOMEN IN BUSINESS IN JAPAN<\/strong> &#8211;\u00a0<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">even if you like this idea of aiming for average, it can be hard to put into practice on your own, right?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The <\/span><strong>#LessEffortMoreImpact<\/strong><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong> Movement for Women in Business<\/strong> (LEMI) is here to help. LEMI is an uplifting community for growth-minded women in Japan and beyond to do brilliant work without sacrificing our personal lives.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Our events and online resources focus on Connection, Care, and Courage <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\ud83d\udc95<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Currently 54 members of 12 nationalities.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_button button_url=&#8221;https:\/\/sasugacommunications.mykajabi.com\/event&#8221; url_new_window=&#8221;on&#8221; button_text=&#8221;Find out more&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.6.3&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221;][\/et_pb_button][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Perhaps the worst and best advice I\u2019ve received so far in my 3-decade career in Japan. 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